In life we meet people, i definitely call it a sheer confidence out of nowhere they popups into our lives and significantly alters our so called self. This existence of someone starts with the time we are born, we get parents, relatives, bloodline if we are fortunate enough. Though there are people who are born in solitude sadly they don't get their families and relatives by default. They grow up among the people who have no direct connections with them, either they choose their family or they are being chosen.
Well I was among the fortunate clan who got her name in legacy. Born and brought up by an over supportive and sensitive parents, cared and nurtured by the immediate relatives and neighbors and guided and motivated by the school teachers. In short from the day we arrive on this earth we find people around us who give life different meanings and social relations. During our kindergarten the very first social and independent interaction we do to choose someone to play with, to talk with because so far our parents were the only friends. Among those acquaintances few become our good friends and probably a best friend about whom we can talk for hours. So you understand the cycle how it is a mere interaction can turns in to a close bond.
Then we grow up our friends' circle increases, now we take logical considerations in selecting friends with whom to share our secrets, the clandestine talks about our crushes, to spend time in leisure, to share the first piece of birthday cakes and many more, hereby we create distinction and give importance accordingly. Interestingly these people have a larger impact on us they can make us laugh and cry. Along the journey we meet so many people we remember few, few become oblivion and the rest were never in the picture even we shared the same boat. Although some friendships lasts for an year or two or three and starts fading away. Yet there are people whose imprints can never disappear. The friendship that remains intact , that remains unshakable and the glory of which intensifies with time and they are only few which can be counted on fingers. It's not that they don't fight, argue the time does take the test of your bond but they surpasses all of them.
I was not an exception to have found these friends who stood for me like another family, who motivates me through my pitfalls and plateaus, who cares and nurtures me with all their heart, who loves me with no conditions for them being happy is to make me happy and laugh. I am blessed that i don't have a gang of friends but a few on whom i can always count on, they popped up in my life and here is our story....
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